How to Be a Great Lover

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• 'There is such power in owning one's sexuality and self'—discarding the slut-shaming script entirely.

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• 'I'm so hot, and you don't even know it'—private knowledge becomes sovereign confidence.

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• 'When I told my boyfriend I think you're ready, it was about me being ready, not him.'

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embodiment

• 'If it feels good, it is good'—a belief in herself emerging over the ideas she grew up with.

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• 'Our sexual prowess is only as good as that of our best lover—and we might have left him behind in high school.'

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intimacy

• She'd always hated his kiss yet couldn't say so—until a simple, loving technique let her show him.

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